The Vision

To abandon the Victorian ideal of sex.

To vaporise the Taboo that sex isn’t important, or should be left out of conversation.

To start a thread of stories of personal intimacy so we can come closer to what as humans we live for and our alive because.

At the centre of Wasitgoodforyou is the necessity to realise that sex is holy, delicate, sensitive and beautiful and we must afford ourselves the freedom to discuss its many foundations.

  • All
  • LOVE
  • Taking time

Two websites, Three girls.

An interview about the behind the scenes, the dreams and the hectic means it took to create Wasitgoodforyou and an interview with ClitBait blogs Laila and Lilah who have created a sisterhood you must get to know FIRST LETS INTRODUCE CLITBAIT. Clitbait is an intersectional feminist website that features articles, artwork, poems and letters […]


Ask yourself  What is sexuality? a human need? desire? a form of hunger? a hunger for what? for love? for pure attention? is it creation? or destruction? is it physical through the body? is it emotional through the soul? is it both? is it a pleasure? is it a burden? what does it create? joy? […]

LOVE LETTERS. ‘Letter to England’ by Eliza Lawrence.

England is where Wasitgoodforyou was born and much of the submissions have the cultural head and tail of the English society attached to them as a result. I’m not talking about the storytellers that are featured on the website itself as there are multiple divergent mouthpieces on there. From Cheshire to Uganda. I’m talking about […]

He was hers. A poem by Luca Goaten.

    He was hers and his eye sockets throbbedLike two syncopated hearts. She took him in, biting into the soft.Perfectly, she captured his body. She tasted him, she pressed him.This was an interrogation. He was held in the black without a lamp-lawyerAnd he blinked to no effect. The deeper dark of her open ‘O’ […]

LOVE. An illustration by Lillie Durant.

      A drawing for all the deeply intimate moments I shared with others, whereby we experienced an exchange of loving energy.       Even if we don’t speak anymore, or no matter how fleeting and spontaneous it was, these moments will always have a lasting imprint on my soul.  Surfacing in my […]


Love sucks.   I am sleeping with a vampire at the moment They don’t use names I’m loving with a vampire at the moment They even don’t have surnames. They have cell phones though That much I know. They also don’t have very good manners They let you into their cave. Maybe you’ll be lucky […]

LOVE. A thought AND thought visual by Lilly Seibel.

THE THOUGHT CONSTRUCT OF LOVE Why are we so afraid of love? It seems easier to be hateful than to support and love each other, you just have to see the news or go through social media apps to recognize that. But why? Sometimes, love in our society feels like a jungle of rules and […]

LOVE and other things. Self potrait’s by Sophie Hamann.

These are four portraits that have been drawn over the last three years. In total there are 75 and this project called ‘The 100 faces’ will be finished as soon as Sophie reaches the 100th portrait. The aim, she tells me, is to understand the emotions, drawing out the shadows that cant be exposed by […]

LOVE. Poetry from Tanaka Mhishi

        Long Distance   I love you. It waxes and wanes. Some days I imagine your face and it’s like a deep ticking inside me, a wasted muscle. Then, palming apples in the supermarket my love for you will shake me by the shoulders, drain my chest of oxygen. Fruit rolls in […]